UN’s Commission on the Status of Women Annual Meeting Called “Inspiring”

CSW 57 March 2013

By Carolyn Chalmers and Helen Rubenstein

“Dreamers and Doers” is a phrase we heard repeatedly at the United Nations’ 57th Annual  Meeting of the Commission on the Status of Women held last week in New York City. Dreamers imagine eliminating violence against women and girls around the world and creative ways to achieve those dreams. Doers make the dreams come true.

Dreamers and Doers included our own delegation of Robin Phillips, executive director of The Advocates; Cheryl Thomas, director of  The Advocates’ Women’s Human Rights Program; Helen Rubenstein, staff attorney with The Advocates’ Women’s Program; and The Advocates’ board members, Carolyn Chalmers and Ellen Sampson. We were among more than 5000 representatives of NGOs and government officials from around the world, as well as  representatives of UN agencies.

At the same time the upbeat message of dreamers and doers was proclaimed, we heard that the world is awakening to the scourge of violence against women. Rashida Manjoo, the UN’s Special Rapporteur on Violence against Women, said that if violence against women were a disease, doctors would treat it as an epidemic. Again and again, we heard how violence against women not only affects individual women, but holds back entire societies and countries from achieving their potential.

Dreams are taking shape and becoming reality, in part, through the creative use of media. This was highlighted by the Avon Foundation’s communication awards at a luncheon at UN Headquarters. Salma Hayek Pinault presented the awards, including the Global Award for Excellence to PCI Media Impact, an organization that uses entertainment to change attitudes and practices. PCI Media won the award for a Latin American program, “Strong Voices, Strong Women,” telenovelas about Afro-Colombian, Peruvian and Bolivian women confronting prejudice, abuse and sexual violence. You can watch a short video of their extraordinary work here: (http://mediaimpact.org/ – “what we do video”)

It was exhilarating and inspiring to meet women from around the world, all working in different ways to end violence against women. It seemed to us that almost half of the women at the conference were from Africa. One session we attended focused on Ugandan communities responding to violence against women through a program called SASA! (a Swahili word meaning “Now!”). SASA! engages community activists —mostly men—to build awareness and support to stop violence against women and to prevent HIV/AIDS by engaging their companions where they gather to drink and socialize. A video about the work of SASA! is available here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qb_Jf_W2-h4

A theme voiced throughout the conference is the role men hold in achieving the goal of eliminating violence against women and girls. Jose Mendes Bota, the General Rapporteur on violence against women of the parliament of the Council of Europe, voiced an impassioned plea for men in parliamentary leadership to give priority to the issue of violence it requires. Women parliamentarians urged communicating messages in a manner that male parliamentarians will support.

Another cornerstone of almost every official country report was the importance of coordination among police, health professionals, prosecutors, judges, NGOs and other service providers. Whether the response is labeled “coordinated community response,” “multi-sector response” or “holistic approach,” it is derived from the Duluth model developed in Minnesota more than 30 years ago.

Not to be missed among all of the presentations and discussions was the celebratory tone resulting from the  reauthorization of  the Violence Against Women Act, signed into law by President Obama on Thursday of the annual meeting.  Much of the credit for overcoming the obstacles in getting the law passed is due to the heroic efforts of the Office on Violence against Women (OVW) in the U.S. Department of Justice.

We had a chance to catch up with Sue Carbon, the former director of OVW, over dinner on Sunday night. Sue traveled with us to Kazakhstan last year and is a great supporter of The Advocates. Also, some members of our delegation heard Bea Hanson, the current acting director of OVW, speak about the battle to get the law passed in a form that includes protection for some of the most vulnerable women, including Native Americans, immigrants and LGBT populations.

We are coming home brimming with ideas and inspiration to continue our own work to end violence against women. We are so grateful for conferences like the CSW that bring together advocates and officials from all over the world to share stories and support for our ongoing work as Dreamers and Doers.

By Carolyn Chalmers and Helen Rubenstein. Chalmers, a member of The Advocates of Human Rights’ board of directors, is the director of the Office of Conflict Resolution, at the University of Minnesota, Twin Cities. Rubenstein is a staff attorney with The Advocates.

2 thoughts on “UN’s Commission on the Status of Women Annual Meeting Called “Inspiring”

  1. Thank you for your hard work and efforts to defend women who have been victimized, and suffered violence. Unfortunately, there is more that needs to be done.

    I am urging you to please consider investigating Family Court failures to protect victims of domestic violence & their children. Specifically, women who flee abuse are further traumatized in Family Court when their parental rights are stripped, and the abuser wins custody of the children. This is happening not only in MN but all over the world.

    Systematic failures in family court have failed to protect the victims of domestic violence, and their children. Too often allegations of abuse are ignored or minimized, putting children’s lives at risk. Even when children come forward to bravely reveal abuse, they are ignored. Victims of domestic violence often are unable to secure adequate legal help because they lack the funds or there is no pro bono programs to help. When these parents go to court with inadequate or no legal representation they are greatly disadvantaged; many lose custody of their children. This is happening in every state of our nation, in all socio-economic backgrounds, and to those with squeaky-clean backgrounds. It is a crisis that perpetuates abuse even as the victims attempt to rebuild their lives.

    Please, please consider taking action on this important issue. I have lost custody of my precious children to an abuser, and they have repeatedly been harmed as a result. The Court has failed to help–and is instead awarding the abuser. I recently was court ordered to pay attorney’s fees to the abuser, for filing a motion after he broke a court order & refused to allow me visitation with my children. The Court then limited my visits to 1x a month and gave the abuser discretion and power to decide if I can see my kids at any other time. My kids are not safe. My oldest has repeatedly tried to run away. I have extensive documentation, including an expert report from a top forensic firm that specializes in high conflict custody cases, to show that abuse did occur & my children are at risk\. No one is listening, no one will help. I have given up the hope for justice in the Court.

    I would love to talk with you more on this issue, and how it impacts women. Or you can visit my blog at: http://www.familycourtinjustice.wordpress.com

    Thank You

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